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Heartwarming Tearjerker of the Day: The sheer...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m44hk3hZjO1qzpwi0o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://tumblr.thedailywh.at/post/23168278202/heartwarming-tearjerker-of-the-day-the-sheer" target="_blank"&gt;thedailywhat&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Heartwarming Tearjerker of the Day:&lt;/strong&gt; The sheer cliffs at the mouth of Sydney Harbor have long been a popular Australian suicide spot. But they’re about to get a lot more deadly — the local man who is credited with talking at least 160 people out of killing themselves since 1964 &lt;a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/news/australia-mourns-angel-of-the-gap-don-ritchie-the-man-who-talked-160-out-of-suicide-7754339.html" target="_blank"&gt;died this week.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Window-watcher Don Ritchie, known as the Angel of the Gap, could spot the troubled ones from his home across the street; he’d wander down to the cliff-edge and calmly ask, “Can I help you in some way?” More often then not, he could. He’d chat with them a bit, then invite them back to his place for a cup of tea.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“My ambition has always been to just get them away from the edge, to buy them time, to give them the opportunity to reflect and give them the chance to realize that things might look better the next morning,” Ritchie once said. “You just can’t sit there and watch them. You’ve got to try and save them.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;[&lt;a href="http://reagan-was-a-horrible-president.tumblr.com/post/23146810811" target="_blank"&gt;advocatingprogress&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/23181801404</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/23181801404</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 15:48:09 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3zy8hOPpu1qzi17wo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/23024445271</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/23024445271</guid><pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 00:07:29 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>lightisart:

This would be cool, except some Graffiti is cool,...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lztr2wVi3u1r9xvcno1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://lightisart.tumblr.com/post/22732250027/this-would-be-cool-except-some-graffiti-is-cool" target="_blank"&gt;lightisart&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;This would be cool, except some Graffiti is cool, and most rap is not.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;you hear that? that’s the sound of 200 followers leaving me.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I’d like to point out the fact that most graffiti looks retarded. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22732701443</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22732701443</guid><pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 15:45:51 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1lq14lTgG1qgc5rxo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22729336790</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22729336790</guid><pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 14:52:45 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>xDDDDDDDDYES. </title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3pja8GWQb1r9dhlfo1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3pja8GWQb1r9dhlfo2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3pja8GWQb1r9dhlfo3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3pja8GWQb1r9dhlfo4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3pja8GWQb1r9dhlfo5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3pja8GWQb1r9dhlfo6_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;xDDDDDDDD&lt;br/&gt;YES. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22701576626</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22701576626</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 23:45:05 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>
half of me is sappy and romantic and nice
and the other half is spiteful and mean and sick and...</title><description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;half of me is sappy and romantic and nice&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;and the other half is spiteful and mean and sick and twisted&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;i don’t understand&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22701570123</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22701570123</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 23:44:55 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>taytaygarcia:

kyst808:

what is this O__O i want it

the fuck…...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3psl0vblj1qz6f9yo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://taytaygarcia.tumblr.com/post/22697802530/kyst808-what-is-this-o-o-i-want-it-the" target="_blank"&gt;taytaygarcia&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://kyst808.tumblr.com/post/22693356132/what-is-this-o-o-i-want-it" target="_blank"&gt;kyst808&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;what is this O__O i want it&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;the fuck… gimme&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.highsnobiety.com/news/2012/05/08/instagram-socialmatic-camera/?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+highsnobiety%2Frss+%28Highsnobiety.com+-+Online+Streetwear+Magazine%29" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.highsnobiety.com/news/2012/05/08/instagram-socialmatic-camera/?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+highsnobiety%2Frss+%28Highsnobiety.com+-+Online+Streetwear+Magazine%29" target="_blank"&gt;http://www.highsnobiety.com/news/2012/05/08/instagram-socialmatic-camera/?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+highsnobiety%2Frss+%28Highsnobiety.com+-+Online+Streetwear+Magazine%29&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22699561641</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22699561641</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 23:00:57 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3ew9hFUFY1qc4we1o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22623810269</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22623810269</guid><pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2012 20:05:24 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1omkzyFMk1qz8rpeo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22599917015</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22599917015</guid><pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2012 14:31:55 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>rolledtrousers:

It’s never the sex I miss the most. 
The sex...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2aixaySI21r47te7o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://rolledtrousers.tumblr.com/post/22344877314/its-never-the-sex-i-miss-the-most-the-sex" target="_blank"&gt;rolledtrousers&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;It’s never the sex I miss the most. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The sex fills a void, and brings life into sharp relief. It creates those transcendental, world shattering moments where you literally stop thinking for the first time in your fucking life, and are finally able to think clearly, to actually know what &lt;em&gt;clarity&lt;/em&gt; means. It’s the time of our lives, truly, and it can get as kinky as all hell. The sex is good. The sex is &lt;em&gt;great&lt;/em&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But it’s never what I miss the most. It’s amazing, it really is, but it’s not what I feel most keenly when you’re gone, or when you’re not here yet. It’s not about me wanting to fill you with me, to be &lt;em&gt;in&lt;/em&gt; you, and to enjoy that feeling more than anything I’ve hitherto experienced. It’s about all the other moments, the bits in between, the filler before the killer. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It’s about cuddling in front of the television, and watching something god awful but laughing along to it anyway. It’s about cooking food together, or even alone, so long as we do the eating across from one another at the table. It’s about the time that we get lost in Covent Garden looking for that one Sushi place that you absolutely &lt;em&gt;must&lt;/em&gt; watch me try. It’s those moments, the in betweeners, that matter the most. They’re the ones I miss most keenly, the ones I pine for. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Because they’re the ones that form the relationship. That’s life, in the little things. Our sex is there too, but it’s too primal to properly give us the opportunity to breathe, and to breathe one another in. You fuck, and then you live. The sex is a pause on life, while the rest of the time you live it. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22598541852</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22598541852</guid><pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2012 14:06:43 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Just reblogging because I’ve been looking for a good ab...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0qwmnNA9G1qlrmdso1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0qwmnNA9G1qlrmdso2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0qwmnNA9G1qlrmdso3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0qwmnNA9G1qlrmdso4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0qwmnNA9G1qlrmdso5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0qwmnNA9G1qlrmdso6_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0qwmnNA9G1qlrmdso7_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0qwmnNA9G1qlrmdso8_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0qwmnNA9G1qlrmdso9_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Just reblogging because I’ve been looking for a good ab workout and I don’t want to lose this.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22263502261</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22263502261</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2012 12:54:47 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3ddnxN0V41r54m6lo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22248117403</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22248117403</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2012 04:16:09 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3djjkQqc01qf2ch0o1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22247721980</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22247721980</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2012 03:54:22 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3diygKNS61qmt70ro1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22247326443</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22247326443</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2012 03:33:39 -0500</pubDate><category>:3</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3dz7309Sf1qzi17wo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22247085618</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22247085618</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2012 03:21:03 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0ylsg3ctX1r1jp71o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22244651602</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22244651602</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2012 01:34:22 -0500</pubDate><category>pretty much my entire outlook on life. lol</category></item><item><title>dahveedm:

I’m just tired of walking upright

OHMEHGAH.ACB. IN...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3ag9nkwpP1qc6cf1o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://dahveedm.tumblr.com/post/22116472720/im-just-tired-of-walking-upright" target="_blank"&gt;dahveedm&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I’m just tired of walking upright&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;OHMEHGAH.&lt;br/&gt;ACB. IN DALLAS. PLAYING OFF MY FAVE ALBUMS.&lt;br/&gt;SO SOON!&lt;br/&gt;:DDD &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22200997773</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22200997773</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 May 2012 12:38:07 -0500</pubDate><category>As Cities Burn</category></item><item><title>"But most of all, stop thinking that what people so loathingly refer to as the “friendzone” is some..."</title><description>“But most of all, stop thinking that what people so loathingly refer to as the “friendzone” is some sort of purgatory women put “nice guys” into. My friendship is not a crappy consolation prize that you’re left with if I deny you a sexual relationship– and my body is not your reward for good behavior.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;Taylor Callobre, The “Good Guy” Myth  (via albinwonderland)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“Not everything is about the sex, what if the guy wants more emotion from the friendship, to actually stem into a relationship. How about when a guy tells a girl he likes her a lot and the girl wants to be just friends. It’s emotionally draining and frustrating to stay just friends with a girl when you want a whole lot more. When you want to be a girls everything, to be what she thinks about at night, what she thinks about when she first wakes up. To be the reason she randomly smiles at times. The friendzone is a terrible thing. “&lt;br/&gt; -The Visual Aesthetic&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://the-visual-aesthetic.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;the-visual-aesthetic&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“&lt;span&gt;One of the worst outcomes of the “but I’m a good guy” phenomenon is that it overshadows the many, many men who don’t think this way and instead realize that if we don’t want to go out with them, &lt;strong&gt;that’s our choice&lt;/strong&gt; and we most likely have a good reason for it, even if we don’t feel like sharing what that reason is.  The word “friendzone” has crept into the vocabularies of even the most respectful, enlightened men, and I think it’s time we push back.  Why not call it something more poetic and accurate, like “&lt;strong&gt;unrequited love” or “unreturned affection&lt;/strong&gt;?” “&lt;br/&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;Taylor Callobre, The “Good Guy” Myth &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22138983538</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22138983538</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 15:08:00 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>….what? xD</title><description>&lt;span id="video_player_22109173752"&gt;[&lt;a href="http://www.adobe.com/shockwave/download/download.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash" target="_blank"&gt;Flash 10&lt;/a&gt; is required to watch video.]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript"&gt;renderVideo("video_player_22109173752",'http://avismaris.tumblr.com/video_file/22109173752/tumblr_m36ecoDYZ01qeldww',400,300,'poster=http%3A%2F%2Fmedia.tumblr.com%2Ftumblr_m36ecoDYZ01qeldww_r1_frame1.jpg,http%3A%2F%2Fmedia.tumblr.com%2Ftumblr_m36ecoDYZ01qeldww_r1_frame2.jpg,http%3A%2F%2Fmedia.tumblr.com%2Ftumblr_m36ecoDYZ01qeldww_r1_frame3.jpg,http%3A%2F%2Fmedia.tumblr.com%2Ftumblr_m36ecoDYZ01qeldww_r1_frame4.jpg,http%3A%2F%2Fmedia.tumblr.com%2Ftumblr_m36ecoDYZ01qeldww_r1_frame5.jpg')&lt;/script&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;….what? xD&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22109173752</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22109173752</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 00:37:33 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwse4yDBzB1qf4o27o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22109169710</link><guid>http://avismaris.tumblr.com/post/22109169710</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 00:37:27 -0500</pubDate></item></channel></rss>

